Monday, May 4, 2009

Life's Lessons Learned The Hard Way

Connor has had his very own beta fish for probably six months. I told him it was his when he got it and told him it was his responsibility to take care of. About a week and a half ago, I noticed that our sweet fish was no longer moving, but decided not to say anything and waited to see how long it would take Connor to notice. THIS WAS A TEST! Three days later on a Tuesday night after Connor's dress rehearsal for his musical at church we got home late and he went in to feed his fish. I bent down as he was about to drop in the fish food and said, "Connor...is your fish moving?"...he replied quickly, "Yes momma" (long pause)...then convulsive crying ensued. I sat down on a little chair and grabbed him up and asked, "Did you forget to feed your fish" to which he replied firmly, "NO!" (again a long pause as I gazed into his teary eyes) and then he said, "Maybe a time or two." I felt sorry for the little fellow, but Doug and I felt like this was a good lesson about responsibility.

Our dead fish...

We finally made time to have a fish burial today (several days after the fish's death)...

The boys saying their goodbyes...

The burial or flushing:)


We made a trip to Walmart for new family members...this time we are trying goldfish...one for every child!

2 comments:

Rachel H said...

Poor, sweet Connor. My heart goes out to him.

The goldfish sure are cute!

MichaelandJaclynn said...

Your first pet funeral!
How sad:( You can see the heartbrake in his little eyes.